Content & Conduct Policy

Every member and every person depicted in any photo must be 18 or older. Content suggesting otherwise — including styling, props or captions implying a minor — is removed immediately and reported to the authorities.

• Only post images of yourself, or of adults who explicitly agreed to be shown on SoleMate.
• No hidden-camera, secretly-taken, stolen or leaked imagery.
• No re-posting another member’s photos, anywhere, for any reason.
• Ask before sending explicit images in messages. Unsolicited explicit DMs are a violation.

• No real names, addresses, workplaces, schools, phone numbers or other contact details.
• No attempts to identify, dox, “out”, blackmail or threaten to expose a member.
• No screenshots or off-platform sharing of posts, profiles or messages.
• Blur or crop identifying tattoos, badges, signage and reflections if you want to stay unrecognisable.

• Harassment, threats, hate speech, or contact after being blocked or muted.
• Paid sexual services, escorting, trafficking, or coercion in any form.
• Financial requests, tributes-for-access scams, crypto pitches, or spam and advertising.
• Content involving animals, non-consenting bystanders, serious injury, or illegal activity.
• Impersonation, ban evasion, bots, scraping or automated access.

Every post, profile and conversation has report, mute and block tools. Reports go straight to the founder. Depending on severity we may veil or remove content, restrict features, suspend the account, or delete it permanently and refer the matter to law enforcement. Serious violations skip warnings.

Move at your own pace, keep photos veiled until you are ready, and never feel pressured to meet, unveil or pay. If something feels wrong, block first and report second — you do not owe anyone an explanation.